HOW TO USE AND CONTROL YOUR FACIAL EXPRESSIONS AT WORK
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Whether your facial expression is naturally pleasant, or you make a fake smile, the message your body language conveys is critical to your career.
Your body language and facial expressions send messages about how you feel. Moreover, facial expressions literally express who a person is on some level. Non-verbal communication is sometimes more important than the actual words we use.
Facial expressions can build trust or destroy it. They can appear arrogant or humble and they can give an impression of dominance or weakness. For these reasons, it’s important to know the matter and fix possible issues. Here are important tips on how to use and control your facial expressions:
- Your facial expressions must match context
- Practice facial expressions for the following situations in front of a mirror: you’re interested, you’re making a point, you’re desagreeing, etc.
- Practice controling mentally your facial expressions in the workplace
- Relax your face to control stern expressions
- Maintain steady eye-contact
- Don’t frown
- When you smile, try to give a genuine smile
- Be strategic when you smile – don’t smile too much or not enough
- Don’t smile when you are making an important business point
- Don’t make fake smiles because this will present you as aggressive
- Avoid eye-rolling at all costs
- Don’t stare at people. Try to relax your face. Don’t forget to blink
- Don’t look down, because that usually indicates disinterest
- Never look annoyed